Anybody else found people sending friends requests and then having them withdrawn if you don't accept straightaway.

I have had two recently (one yesterday in fact)

Now I don't know what the game is here, have they got pissed at me because I wasn't quick enough to realise how great they were or did they read my blog and discover that I was some kind of raving loony? Who knows but here is some guidance for anyone who is nuts enough to want me as a friend.

While I don't care what religion you are, whether you are gay, straight or bi or where you come from, I won't stand for any racism, homophobia or other forms of discrimination, daft brainwashing cults or intolerant extremist religious preaching that seeks to constrain others chosen way of life (whether Christian or Muslim). I guess essentially I'm a middle class Guardian reader out and proud.

I will not suffer commercial sites and will flag any that try it on here.

If you want to know what I like read my blog and then decide if I'm the sort of friend you want. Then send me a message saying why you want to be my friend, it does not need to be an essay. I will then read your blog to decide whether I want to accept your offer, but it may take more than a few days
as I have a lot of things going on.